Helping Midlife Women recognize and repair patterns of disconnection, disruption, and discontent

So they are free to REIMAGINE the next phase of life from the quiet power that comes from truly, deeply honoring their Authentic Selves.

EMDR Therapy is available in person in Bartlett, IL, and online throughout Illinois, Florida, Texas, and South Carolina.

Robin Kulesza i EMDR Therapist

healing for the midlife woman

Unresolved trauma is like carrying a heavy backpack from the past that you have never set down.

It can make things like taking care of your family, enjoying time with friends, or just feeling good about yourself really hard. If not before, healing in midlife can (finally) set you free.

Free from the past.

Free to make your own choices.

Free to create a life that FEELS good
(not just what looks, good on the surface).

Which do you connect with?

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I’m a Midlife Woman ready to heal old hurts and REIMAGINE myself and my life.

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I’m an EMDR therapist ready to learn from an EMDR Certified Therapist and Consultant in Training.

Retired Military Pilot

Mom of Two

Proud Dog Mom

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Retired Military Pilot

Mom of Two

Proud Dog Mom

Leader

Empty Nester

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I’m Robin!

Retired military pilot, Mom to two young adults, and Daisy (the cutest rescue dog you’ll ever meet), EMDR Certified and Brainspotting therapist who specializes in Midlife Healing.

I’m a Consultant-in-Training who guides trainee EMDR therapists to build confidence and consultation hours toward certification through my kind, collaborative approach (and extensive trauma treatment experience).

COLLEAGUE TESTIMONIALS

  • "Robin is a highly trained clinician who has a lot of experience treating trauma. She also has a very kind and compassionate presence."

    Michelle Stiles, LMHC

  • "Robin is incredibly skilled at EMDR and will help you process any trauma or wounds that have left you feeling stuck. She is a warm person that will leave you feeling supported and heard."

    Jennifer Cooper Nobo, LCSW

  • "Robin does an amazing job in supporting her clients' healing journey through childhood and relationship trauma."

    Shani Gardner, LCSW

  • "Robin is knowledgeable and experienced in helping her clients reach their goals. She creates an inviting, warm atmosphere in which to do this."

    Jonathan Cadwell, LPC

My Story

As a child and younger woman, I was an A+ good girl, avoiding conflict in favor of keeping the peace, I taught myself to be a chameleon, always shapeshifting to suit the environment, never knowing my authentic self. I was drawn to this work because healing my own old hurts has led me to a path of growth, freedom, and deep personal peace.

I love seeing a client’s face as they shift from self-directed blame and anger to fully recognizing the root cause of their particular flavor of numbing or ‘coping’ mechanisms (you know all those food, alcohol, and other drugs, overworking, keeping-the-peace, social scrolling, high achieving tendencies?). Yeah ... those.

Whatever you’re struggling with…

The first step is to book a complimentary call with me.

You’ll get a safe space to share what you’re dealing with right now, and I’ll share with how we
can work together to help shift you to where you want to be.